I wanted to thank each and everyone of you for your comments and kind e-mails. I did need that reminder that I am not responsible for another's actions. As all parents know it is hard at times to not blame yourself for your child's mistakes. At least I am not blind to what she does. I do not deny it. I do not cover up what she does. I was watching Dr phil yesterday and I was appalled at this mother that was denying her son'e confession that her molested her 4 year old daughter and that it was not just a one time thing. i could not watch the show to the end, so I do not know if Dr. Phil thought that the boy(man) should come back home after his treatment. Instead of being arrested he was placed in a treatment program. Yes, he is your son love him. That is your daughter, love her too and do not bring him back. Did anyone else see the show? Do they know what happened?