I helped my friend move today.She is not happy.She is moving into an apartment. She recently got a divorse and because they could not come to an agreement, she lost the home she was living in. The judge ordered the property to be sold and divided. She is sad because she says she is always the one that loses thier home. I think the move will be good for her. She is unable to take care of her yard due to her health, does not know how to do any normal maintaince and cannot afford to hire someone to do things for her. She needs to rid herself of things that are not needed. She has clothes that fill up 5 closets in her new apartment. Most of these clothes will never be worn again as they are the wrong size and are so old that they will probally fall apart if cleaned.  I am hoping that she will settle in and see that there is life away from the country. She has already decided that she will hate it. I am sad that she was moved away from me but I see this as a positive move for her. She was living to close to her ex. She claimed that it did not matter to her what he did anymore, that is did not bother her. I know it did. One of the first things she would ask me is if so-and-so was up here ( I can see where he lived). Not one conversation was held that she did not mention him.  She needed to move.The stress was too much for her.