Thursday, January 11, 2007

not liking it

Today is Pat's birthday. It would please me if this day would start over. I am just not liking it today. We all would have been better off today if I had given him a large sleeping pill and he stayed in bed asleep the whole day. Nothing worse than a pessimist having a bad day. Yes that is Pat. Sometimes I wonder how we made it as long as we have. He sees the dark side of everything. He holds a grudge until dooms day and never forgets. The problem with never forgets is he does not remember things correctly either. With him there is no silver lining anywhere.

I baked 2 cakes. Last night I made one for him and used store bough icing that had turned or something. This morning he ate a piece but he was making funny faces. He went back to bed for a bit and I baked another cake and made some chocolate icing using Hersey bars for the chocolate.

Must fight the urge to overate. I am not hungry just frusterated. talk to yall later. things will get better for me because I will not allow myself to be dragged down by him.

14 comments:

  1. I hope he gets in a better mood.

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  2. I wish I could give you a big hug right now. You are a sweetie for making him TWO cakes!

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  3. Men truely are from Mars. Awww wish we lived close, we could just run off. lol Paula

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  4. Boys suck.  I admit it!  We are crazy and you'll never understand us.  

    That being said, I have an iron stomach.  GIMME SOME CAKE, WOMAN!  LOL!

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  5. Hope your new day is better....hang tough girl....Hugs...Ora

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  6. Maybe you have lasted so long because you balance each other out. Good luck getting through the day, and Happy Birthday to Pat!

    xoxo

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  7. Bummer I hope he got up from the right side of the bed after his nap. It's a ood thing you are patient and love him, dispite everything! Margo

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  8. Maybe it is the thought of aging that is eating at PAt??? I am sorry Celeste but I did get a good laugh from your first paragraph!!! lol lol Sounds like you know him pretty good too!!! lol Hope the day ended up well for you both.
    love ya,
    carlene

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  9. See your email, kindred spirit.

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  10. My husband is a lot like this.  I often wonder how we made it this long.

    Obviously, you knock yourself out to make things right.  That's the kind of spouse these type of men need.  But it's not easy....not by a long shot.

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  11. Celeste
    I'm sorry Pat's birthday started out so poorly.  I'm typing this comment on Friday morning, so by now, this day has passed.  I do hope it got better.  What rotten luck with that store bought icing.  You are a saint to have baked him another cake right away.  He may not show it, or express it, but I know he apreciates you and all the little things you do for him.  Hang in there!
    Sam

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  12. My husband acts the same way at times. I tell him he sucks all the fun out of life. I don't know why they do this at times. I have learned to just ignor it. I will not let him drag me down either. (I do that enough to me on my own) Seems like when I just ignor how he is acting he comes out of it faster. hugs

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  13. oh i hope he lightens up for you!  wish him a happy birthday for me anyway.
    hugs
    noelle

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  14. I hope the day turned out ok for you. I'm catching up here.
    Pam

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