Monday, February 20, 2006

Grown Woman or Girl?

Grown Woman or Girl?   Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man
want to 'lock' you down.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his manhood.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection,
ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you back-- and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other grown women
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13 comments:

  1. This is sooooooooo good I sent itto mygirls

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  2. Great observations here, Celeste!  I'll have to pass this on to Paulette!
    Sam

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  3. lovely Celeste - enjoyed reading that.....Ally

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  4. LOVELOVELOVE this!  Thanks for the validation. ;)  C.  http://journals.aol.com/gdireneoe/thedailies

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  5. OLD MAN!! Just kinda responding to several entries at once. So sorry about the accident thing, glad you are all OK. I'ld love to join you in your "resignation" deal, BUT, I'm probably too old to remember how to be a kid...ummmmm? rich

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  6. Girls! lol  heheheheheh enjoyed the read.  TerryAnn.  

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  7. That was great. Did you write it?
    Angela

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  8. you got it allllll right sister...LOL...

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  9. Oh I like that, and I will pass it on!  So true!
    Lori

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  10. I like that! I think I shall pass it onto my girls
    Terrie

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  11. Amen, sister!

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  12. Celeste, did you write this?  I think it's dead on.  I love it!

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