I am okay. Pat and I are having problems. Shortly after posting my last entry he came home. He had left earlier(11 hours earlier) after a few words to me that were uncalled for. He did not answer his phone and he was not using it to call anyone either. (I know how to check on that....)
Anyway I decided to sleep on the couch last night(fell asleep watching TV news) Around 2 am when he decided to go to bed he woke me up with a kiss on the forehead to take me to bed. He confuses me so much. I want to hate him but I can't, I love him. We have been together for 13 years now. I hate fighting with him. Even if I do not respond it does not matter, my silence is used against me. He is NOT physical.
awwwwwwwww Im so sorry . I figured you had a fight or something i hate that stuff. do you mean no he isnt physical or he is?????????? OH I Bet you are just so worn out
ReplyDeleteCeleste
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear of your problems with Pat. We all go through tough times with those we love, but something tells me there may be some deeper issues here. Or maybe you miss-typed the part about him being physical. I hope I read that the wrong way. We are here with a sympathetic ear and will listen anytime you want to let off a little steam. No judgements, just friendship. You two will be in my thoughts and prayers today.
Sam
Glad that you are okay, Celeste. I don't like to fight either...its a NO WIN situation. ~Deborah
ReplyDeleteCeleste sorry about the problems you are going through, You have got to talk to each other, That is the only way to get any problems resolved.....we are here for you if you need to talk.....Ally
ReplyDeleteJust checking and will keep you in the thoughts!
ReplyDeleteTess
I can't imagine not feeling that way about your husband at one time or another. When we are really miffed with one another, Pete often leaves for hours. Usually to brother Benny's or friend Rick's.....or he goes to hibernate at the deer camp. I think it is his way of making sure he does NOT become physical......as I have a hard time shutting my mouth, and his dad was a holy terror back in the day. Usually, when he returns we are both cool enough to actually talk and put it behind us. - Barbara
ReplyDeleteI do hope you can find a solution to this Celeste,
ReplyDelete(((((hugs)))))
Sandra xxxx
Celeste, Emotional abuse can be as confusing as physical abuse, if not more. I'm thankful you have J-lander friends to try to cope with this. It's a long, hard dance, isn't it?
ReplyDeleteCeleste,
ReplyDeleteI was so worried. I hope all is well now over at your house....Seems like December is a stressful month anyway. We all have these kind of times with the people we love....life can be so hard sometimes, but please know you are not alone here...we are here with you.....
love ya,
Carlene
Sweetie, I will be praying for you both. Blessings, Penny
ReplyDeleteThanx for clearing that up. rich
ReplyDeleteI am sorry life is so difficult at times. Relationships are so confusing, and most of us are not taught to argue fairly so we acn resolve problems. I hope things get better. Margo
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